I love children, and I always wanted children. And I always imagined that I would have a boyfriend or husband to have the children with. But the older I get, the more urgent the issue has become. I have considered using a donor to have a child. But is doesn’t feel like the right thing to do for me. Don´t get me wrong. I admire the women who choose to have a child alone. But it is not for me.
I can´t say, that I won´t change my mind at some point. But right now, it doesn’t feel like the right way for me. For several years I felt a big need to have children. But after working on my self and my issues, that need has become small.
I am right now trying to imagine my life without children. There is still time. But I think that it is healthy for you to consider the other things there are in life. I still have a family. And my sisters have had 6 children. So my family is always growing. I love to travel and learn new things. So there is so much more to life than having children. I forgot that for a long time. Because my focus was on finding someone to have children with. Now I am working on changing that focus. Working on my self.
Love from the blond goddess